Holiday Retreat Family Camp—Coming Soon

I’ve teamed up with my siblings on a project that we believe is God’s purpose for us. We want Holiday Retreat Family Camp to stand as a premier destination campground catering to families with special-needs children seeking nature-based experiences.

Each of us brings different work experiences to enhance this personal project. My sister is a parent to a special-needs child, has a degree in accounting, and has over twenty-five years of experience in customer service. One brother is a U.S.A.F. veteran with a background in law enforcement and business ownership. Our other brother has over twenty-three years of retail and management experience. I have thirty years of experience in customer service. And, I’d like to think I have the writing skills to help promote our mission.

Our inspiration is certainly my nephew Patrick, who has special needs, but it also started over forty years ago.

When we were young, our family went camping every summer. It was horrible. A family of six cramped in a small pop-up camper not getting along. A rusted playground. Pricy add-ons. Extra work for mom. Dad working within a strapped budget. And kids with nothing to do except skip stones and roll in poison ivy.

Drawing inspiration from our own challenging camping experiences as children, Holiday Retreat Family Camp will be founded on the principle of creating a haven for families. Our goal will be to rectify the shortcomings of our childhood camping escapades by offering a fun and stress-free celebration for every family that will grace our campground.

As parents, aunts, and uncles to a special-needs child, we understand the importance of inclusivity, especially for families with special-needs children. In Phase 1 of our visionary project, we will ensure that at least nine cabins are ADA-compliant. Phase 2 will involve the creation of an all-abilities playground and sensory rooms, further emphasizing our commitment to inclusivity.

Our Phase 3 program will be the culmination of our commitment to families with special-needs children. The family vacation package will include accessible lodging, farm-to-table meals, a parental support group, and a range of planned activities with the help of a family companion in a safe and relaxed environment.

Our goal will be to strengthen family bonds and reduce stress without putting extra work on the parents. The whole family will be able to relax and enjoy their stay.

Follow Holiday Retreat Family Camp’s Facebook Page for more information and updates on our visionary project.

Interview & Review: #Hauntings, #Spirits, & Eats #Michigan by Kathy Conder

Today, I’m chatting with Kathy Conder about her debut book, Hauntings, Spirits, & Eats Michigan.

Seasoned paranormal investigator, Kathy Conder draws on her experience with the paranormal to highlight different locations throughout Michigan that are reportedly haunted.  She includes restaurants, pubs, and hotels for those travelers who want to add a little paranormal spice to their trips.  Each establishment is listed by its location in the state and offers readers the history and hauntings connected to each.  For those who are interested in exploring the mysterious world of the paranormal, this book is a great starting point for planning your next Michigan trip.

Q & A

CHRISTINA: Thanks for joining me today. Share a bit of your background before we delve more into your book.

KATHY: I was a Zoology major in college. I wrote for my university paper and have written articles on the paranormal for other publications. This is the first time I have written a book.

CHRISTINA: Tell us about your new book.

KATHY: As director for a paranormal group, I am often asked where the haunted places are in Michigan. I decided that by writing a book, I could list places that I knew in an organized format that was user-friendly. I would also be able to include some history on each location and my personal experiences if there were any. While I loved the idea of basing the book on Michigan’s “haunted hot spots,” I didn’t want it to read like a road atlas. People love a good story – especially a scary one and I had lots to share!

CHRISTINA: What inspired you to write this book?

KATHY: For some reason, I felt the timing was right. I was still somewhat reluctant to begin and even more so, admit to friends and family that I had. That meant I was accountable. It was official. Once I made that commitment, the rest was easier. I had days where the words flowed and others where I stalled and sat on the floor assembling Lego sets for the grandkids. The most important thing to me was to complete the book. I did and for me it will always be a symbol of my accomplishment.

CHRISTINA: What kind of research did you do?

KATHY: Most of my research is done on the job. I admit that I find myself in more than my share of reportedly haunted places, studying and exploring. What I have learned over the years has been through my experiences. Evidence of paranormal activity is often anecdotal. There is, as of now, no scientific evidence to prove its existence. I do extensive research on the history of different locations since hauntings can often be related to what occurred there in the past. For that information, I have found the local historical societies are a valuable resource. Local libraries and on-line sources have a wealth of information as well.

CHRISTINA: What is the most surprising thing you discovered while writing your book?

KATHY: Writing is hard!

CHRISTINA: How long did you take to write the book?

KATHY: I think it was a year-long process.

CHRISTINA: Describe your writing space.

KATHY: I write at my husband’s grandmother’s desk. I have surrounded myself with things that make me happy. I tried hard to make it my own. I find that once I sit in that space, my mind seems to switch to writing-mode.

CHRISTINA: What is the most difficult part of writing for you?

KATHY: Disciplining myself. Doubting myself. I tend to second-guess a lot!

CHRISTINA: What would you say is your most interesting writing quirk?

KATHY: I don’t think it is interesting, but I have found music to be extremely grounding. From day to day, the music varies with my moods. I thought it might be distracting but it is the opposite. It helps me to focus.

CHRISTINA: Does writing energize or exhaust you?

KATHY: Both, equally!

CHRISTINA: What advice would you give to new writers – someone just starting out?

KATHY: Don’t be too hard on yourself. Writing is a learning process. Set up a writing schedule and stick to it, even you don’t get much written.

CHRISTINA: Where can we learn more about you and your book?

KATHY: You can find my book, Hauntings, Spirits, & Eats Michigan on Amazon and Goodreads, and you can find me on Michigan Paranormal Encounters on Facebook.

MY REVIEW

Kathy has done a great job researching over eighty haunted places in Michigan—lighthouses, inns, pubs, museums and more. I enjoyed reading the history of the sites as well as Kathy’s personal accounts as a paranormal investigator with thirty-eight years of experience. The perfect road trip book for all things spooky and historical in Michigan.

My Siblings

After waiting a year, my siblings and I finally headed to Nevada. No spouses. No kids. Just the four of us. My favorite spot was Red Rock Canyon. Absolutely beautiful. We had a fun time, and I’m happy to report we have remained friends after a week of living together.

(That’s me in the back.)